Boys? What if?

 This is dedicated for all the "good" boys out there..

Men and women has their own individual feelings and sentiments. Both have this gut and will to survive, despite the many differences in their attributes. But sometimes, it is the feminine side who’ll end up suffering, which for them is quite unfair, yet still, many of the boys out there has nothing but to agitate the psyches of the females.

But what if…

Boys in their monthly visit and the likes

Female, as we all know, suffer from this monthly cycle we all justify as menstruation. And males just never cared about it. But what if for just a short while, men suffers the like? Could you imagine them buying a piece females do to cover that piece of cloth homo sapiens wear? Girls, could you imagine your guy passing out from your date because he’s having a ‘visit?’ And, could you imagine him sitting uncomfortably while wearing something to cover up the mess, and changes his mood—from smiling to angry—that easily? What if he’s talking with a friend, or another guy, then suddenly runs away shouting, “Monthly visit bro. I have to change up.”

What if like females, males will also suffer from one of the worst scenarios experiences—to succumb from the so called dysmenorrhea? Could you imagine him hugging himself in a fetal position, crumpling on his bed, sobbing in pain, putting hot compress on the part of interest, and make that as an excuse for his absences? Funny boys. Isn’t it? Or a lot awkward?

Boys in their online love

Females, if not most of the time, are left alone in her lair, thinking of the man that disturbs her emotions. They are sometimes bound in solitude and monotony, not knowing where their boyfriends are—playing online games. But what if, the situation exchanges and destiny will turn upside down?

Boys, could you imagine yourself in your lair, sitting in the darkness, waiting for your girl’s reply, knowing that she’s with her other friends, enjoying the time with each other, playing Dota, CS and others? Could you imagine yourself while doomed and can’t do anything but to call her, catch her attention, and when she’ll answer, will just say, “Gagama pa kog assignment. Text ra ko nimu ron,” just to make an excuse for you not to disturb their time while playing? Could you imagine yourself in the foot of your girl?

Boys in their labor days

One of the most painful part of being a girl, is to experience the consequences of making love—that is to bear a living thing in your tummy and carry it for 9 months. And sometimes, boys don’t really care about this.

But what if, like females, boys will be experiencing the same pain, bearing a living inside their stomachs and wait for such a long time just to let it out? Boys, could you imagine yourself baby-sitting and spoon-feeding your child because you have to? And could you also imagine yourself hugging your baby in your bare hands and let it get the colostrum that it needs from a mother to grow?

Boys, have you ever thought of all this? It may be that awkward, but try to put your own foot to a woman that you know has experienced all this. Maybe not all, but some are just contented with making a girl be more than sad because of the things that she can’t do, due to the sudden things that happens to them. Boys, have you ever asked yourself the possible reasons why a girl changes mood every time she suffer these things? Have you ever comforted a girl when she’s in the peak of that suffering? And have you ever imagined how much pain a girl gets and experiences whenever these irritable, never changing, and never ending things happen?

Ask yourself boys, reflect on it, and respect, understand, and love every woman you knew, and every woman that you will still know, because a pain that they are suffering, is not as easy to bear as what you are thinking.