“When
the cat is away, the mouse will play.”
We always do experience
a thrill of excitement whenever our buddies are out there somewhere, out of reach.
We always do feel the freedom to say and do whatever we want and like whenever
our enemies are nowhere to be found. We always do bear this cat and mouse
relationship.
It has always been on
our psyche—to make the best when they are not around, to make some fun when
they are not listening.
Listed below are just
kink examples of situations where we could all relate to:
Student-teacher
relationship
Think of yourself
sitting in front of the class with the most horrific teacher in the campus.
Think of all those traumatic events when you will be scolded, yelled and will
feel terrified by your teacher’s glaring eyes. Aren't those devastating?
However, every student
has a real funny but true thing to every teacher. Here are some situations that
we could actually site with our teachers—just to make fond of it.
When the time of the
class has already been running and the teacher has not arrived yet, our minds
are already going through a lot of plans for that time— one mouse has to serve
as the look-out for the whole class, waiting at the door for any sign of the
approaching grumpy cat, and the rest has to do their things and savor it—like
do their assignments, listen to music, or just gossip on their crushes and the
likes.
Another is when the
teacher will arrive, making the whole class doomed, then suddenly, the teacher
herself changes the mood of every entity when she decided not to hold a class
for some important matters; the students on the other hand are already shouting
with joy in their hearts, but silent enough for the teacher not to hear their
overflowing emotions. It feels like the whole class has been set free from a
lifetime of monotony and melancholy, especially if that is a boring minor
subject or a nerve-cracking major subject, or if they will be having an exam on
that day and all the students were not able to study their lesson.
Child-parent
relationship
As kids, we always love
to be with our parents; that were when we were still young. But that’s quite
deviated as the one of the norms nowadays. Back when we were still young, we
always wanted to be petted by our mother, but now, some things are just
different.
It has not been new to
our notion that some, if not majority of our parents are harsh and
authoritarian; some in a sense of unknowingly controlling their child,
depriving their rights. Today, many of us still are clinging to this thing, but
not all the times.
We feel controlled and
still when they are at our side, but when they are away, it’s like we are so
free and liberated that it seemed that we rule the world, and we own it. It’s
like being freed from the dark and can now go and roam around, do everything we
like and be us.
The situation goes to
be having your true identity revealed with the absence of our progenitors, and
pretending to be not you when they are present, and these holds true to many of
us.
Friends-enemy
(friend) relationship
This is very common on
teenagers nowadays. Well, common enough to majority, if not all groups of
friends, especially girls.
Some of these
situations are as follows:
When you are with your
clique, then there is one person you are talking about as your hot seat gossip,
the group will compress and form this circle of chikas to begin with. One will start the ball rolling, then everyone
will be so eager to share their sentiments and comments to such individual—some
with words of insult, some just to have fun, especially if that individual is
the most vulnerable of all, the one who has many flaws. Then suddenly, the
person of your chika arrives and
walks towards you, and then one will change the topic, and without any
interruptions, all the rest will be talking with that new scope, knowing that
the person of their chika is already
there, unconscious and unaware.
Sometimes, they will
even go to the canteen and continue their chika,
just to finish what they’ve started.
Another situation turns
around just with your own friends, and you’ll never know that you are already
in the trend.
One second you are talking
to each other, happily and normally as what friends do, but deep inside you are
hiding that antagonistic feeling inside towards that friend, then when that
comrade turns around and goes away, your dirty thoughts and words will be
whispered through the wind.
On the other hand, that
friend of yours, who unknowingly has been bitten by you, also has the wrath
towards you, and hated you more than you hated her, and the cycle continues—you
will be facing through each other, yet the both of you are floating like
plastics in the river.
Individual-home
relationship
We tend to be so moral
and erect while we are in our homes, guarded by the force field so you cannot
go and be yourself. But when we are out there somewhere—like out of town,
hanging out with friends, we feel superior and resorts to be going wild, while
our homes are left behind, longing for you to show what you are with it.
We used to be so silent
when staying on our individual lairs, seems like we are not us. But if given a
chance to be with others, it seems like the world is ours, the whole dome is in
our command. Remember that all of us also need some time on our own, to know us
better, to recognize what we have, and improve what we have to, away from the
barriers that alters our desire to do the task that we have to. So go on, while
the cat is away, let us play.
